After Golf Pichaya’s mother gave a teary interview to the media press that her son had left home and cut off communication from her for over 6 months. The family feud became talk of town and causing Golf to become the object of criticism on the internet.
Yesterday, at a press conference held by Nithipaisarnkul family, Golf broke down crying and apologized to his mother for leaving home.
Golf’s mom also confessed she is sorry for giving a press interview about her son – although at the end of the day, the mother said, it was worth it because she got her son back.
Golf: Today I’m here to talk about everything that’s being coming out in the news. I want to explain to everyone so people could understand what happened. Because the press have asked for my parents but my mom was working overseas and my father only just got back. But today, everyone is here, so we’re going to talk it over so everyone can listen to what’s going on.
Mom: Everything that I wanted to say, I have said it all in my interview
Golf: As everyone has heard from the news. I just want to say that it’s my fault for not communicating with my mom. In the past, I may have hurt her feelings and I knew that but I was not brave enough for confrontation
Dad: Honestly, part of my job in the fashion industry is to travel a lot, I don’t really get to spend much time in Thailand and when Golf left, it was because his dance school is closer to Grammy and our house is far away from the school. He usually has morning classes and Golf has been getting up at 5am every morning to get to class on time and every night he doesn’t finish work till late so I was worried about him. When he came to me to ask me to move closer to his school, I took him to find a place. From my understanding, I thought I would go and tell his mom about it later but then I got caught up and had to travel again, I never had the chance to tell his mom. I think sometimes our society needs to understand that everyone has a job to do, Golf has to concentrate on his music and in a rational point of view I feel that convenience is very important for a man and the fact that neither of us had communicated to mom first had hurt her feelings. I think part of it is also my fault”
Mom: I was travelling to Australia and his dad told me before I got on the plane. I haven’t had time to take in the information and honestly I think he was afraid that I would stress out because that’s what I do and I am very close to Golf and I love him very much. At the time, I didn’t ask why he wanted to move and when I got back, the issue was unresolved so I assumed he left because he was angry and upset
Golf: Because I have talked it over with my father about it already. He took me to the school and around the area. In my new place, the travelling time between home and school is only 15 minutes
Mom: I have to admit at the time I was angry, I felt bad because I thought at the very least, he should discuss this with me first. So I was angry with him and I didn’t want to talk to him. The day he moved out, I was too angry, I didn’t want to ask him anything. I thought I was better off not talking to him and let it linger.
How long did you let it go on for?
Mom: Around 6 months
Dad: Honestly, the whole time that he was living outside of home, Golf knew his mother was angry with him and he was too afraid to talk to her
Golf: I wasn’t brave enough. I was afraid that if I talk to her she would get angry. During the time that I was living outside, I called my dad often, I would always ask about my mom, is she still mad at me?
Did you try to communicate with your mom?
Golf: The last time she travelled overseas, I messaged her and…(cries)
Mom: I have to say that I can be petulant. I like to win, Golf knows what I’m like and he is scared of me. Sometimes when I talk to my kids, I can be quite mean to them
Why didn’t you talk to your mom?
Golf: My mother is petulant and when I talk to her she usually gets angry so I thought I should just leave it for a while and when it gets better I would go and apologize to her later for upsetting her
Is there anything you want to say to your mom now?
Golf: I spoke to her yesterday already. And today I want to say that I’m sorry for upsetting her. It made me feel bad too
Mom: Golf and I have sorted everything out with each other and because I’m his mom, I love him very much and I was hurt a lot too. I am very close to Golf (cries) in the past, he’s been a playful child and he has always been a good kid to me
Was Dew the reason that came between the relationship between you and your son
Golf: Please don’t talk about a third party. It’s my fault for not communicating. I wasn’t brave enough for confrontation like this and in the past 6 months, I had to work so I didn’t get a chance to deal with this
Mom: How about I’ll just stick to answering questions about my son and my son only. Because the problem is between me and my son, I just want to deal with my family
Have you spoken to Dew Arisara about this?
Golf: I have and she didn’t say anything. But of course she wants me to sort it out with my family but today I really don’t want to talk about anyone else. I just want to talk about my family
Are you going to move back home?
Golf: I’ve discussed this with my parents already, I will go home once every week
Who are you living with at the condo?
Golf: By myself
Where is your school?
Golf: My school is in Nana, my house is in Talingchun
Mom: I’ve made a deal with Golf, on days when he doesn’t have school, he will come back home. We’ve talked it through already. In the past, when you love someone so much, you get upset a lot. But I don’t think any mother in the world would ever want to destroy their child. I love my son and I was upset, all I wanted to do was to let him know that I was upset
Are you upset that your interview became talk of town
Mom: Of course I am, but at the very least, I got my message through to him and he came back. I supposed what I did was worth it. But my son is not a bad person, but sometimes we don’t see things the same way
Golf: From now on I’ll do my best, sometimes I spend too much time working that I neglect my family. From now on, I will spend more time with my family
Mom: Golf didn’t leave home without a word, he left home with only his father’s permission and not mine. All I knew was that he was leaving, he never told me why
Golf: I just want to say to everyone that if you ever have problems, talk it over straight away and don’t leave it too long, because you will get caught up with work and you will forget
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